15 Ways to Live, and Not Merely Exist

As Jack London once said, “The proper function of man is to live, not to exist.”  Far too often we travel through life on autopilot, going through the motions, accepting what is, and having every day pass like the one before it.

1. Appreciate the great people and things in your life. – Sometimes we don’t notice the things others do for us until they stop doing them.  Don’t be like that.  Be grateful for what you have, who loves you, and who cares for you.  You’ll never know how much they mean to you until the day they’re no longer beside you.  Truly appreciate those around you, and you’ll soon find many others around you.  Truly appreciate life, and you’ll find that you have more of it to live.  

2. Ignore other people’s negativity.

3. Forgive those who have hurt you.

4. Be who you really are. – Being YOU is worth it!

5. Choose to listen to your inner voice. 

6. Embrace change and enjoy your life as it unfolds. – The hardest part about growing is letting go of what you were used to, and moving on with something you’re not. 

7. Choose your relationships wisely. 

8. Recognize those who love you. – The most memorable people in your life will be the ones who loved you when you weren’t very loveable.  Pay attention to who these people are in your life, and love them back, even when they aren’t acting loveable.

9. Love yourself too. 

10. Do things your future self will thank you for. 

11. Be thankful for all the troubles you don’t have.

12. Leave enough time for fun. 

13. Enjoy the little things in life. – The best things in life are free.  There is absolute joy and wonder to be had in the simplest of moments.  

14. Accept the fact that the past in not today. – Don’t let the past steal your present and future from you.  You might not be proud of all the things you’ve done in the past, but that’s okay.  The past is not today.  The past cannot be changed, forgotten, or erased.  It can only be accepted.  We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past.  But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future.

15. Let go when you must. 

[source : http://www.marcandangel.com/2012/03/19/15-ways-to-live-and-not-merely-exist/]

Happy Father's Day

A father is his daughters first love and his sons first hero.
The reason why daughter’s love their Dad the most is… that there is at least one man in the world who will never hurt her……
 
Years may come and go, but your memory will never be erased.
I once knew a man, who gave love at his best,
And no one can ever take your place.
I miss you so much DAD!

Lullaby

16 years have passed and i miss u more that ever...

Lullaby-Arwen
Don't you cry, I'm right here with you
Feel the darkness running away from here
Don't you cry, I will stay with you
Nightmare, demons... all end now

So close your eyes and you will travel
To a magic world
Where peace reigns forever

Today the stars will guide your dreams and
Protect all the things above you
Tonight an angel will come to give you a kiss
Only for you
Sweet dreaming now, my little piece of love

Here we go, don't look at behind
Hold my hand and we will fly away
Here you have a thousand of adventures to live
Just choose one every night

Don't remember (the) darkness and sorrow
Come here now, back to light

Where have you been?

Bohsan...

Aku dah bosan... Bosan dengan kerja...
Adakah ini permanent atau sementara? Aku harap sementara saja lah...
     kalau x camana aku nak makan...
     kalau x camna aku nak bayar kereta....
     kalau x camna aku nak bayar bills dsbgnya...

Tiap hari gi keje ngadap Mac aku ni.. sebarang idea pon dah x kluar...

dah macam2 aku buat kasi idea dtg.... tp sama je...
sudah aku dengar macam2 lagu... tp sama je...
sudah aku berjalan2 mencuci mata.. tp sama je...

     Mungkinkah aku penat...
     Mungkinkah aku tiada kawan di opis baru ni yg sealiran bidang dengan aku....
     Mungkinkah kerana insiden di opis yg membuatkan aku hilang minat...
     Mungkinkah aku tak boleh menjadi designer lagi...
     Mungkinkah aku perlu bercuti...
     Mungkinkah aku perlu bertukar bidang.....

Entahlah...yang pastinya apa aku boleh cakap di sini adalah Aku dah Bohsan...aku menghadapi masalah untuk menghasilkan design... :'(

Love Sucks!!

Love sucks. Love is a deadly weapon used to break down friendships, corrupt lives and even leads to death. It's all in the mind.

Love. It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, some simple a phrase may turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.