Be happy

Life is better when you are happy, but life is at its best when other people are happy because of you. Be Inspired...

15 Ways to Live, and Not Merely Exist

As Jack London once said, “The proper function of man is to live, not to exist.”  Far too often we travel through life on autopilot, going through the motions, accepting what is, and having every day pass like the one before it.

1. Appreciate the great people and things in your life. – Sometimes we don’t notice the things others do for us until they stop doing them.  Don’t be like that.  Be grateful for what you have, who loves you, and who cares for you.  You’ll never know how much they mean to you until the day they’re no longer beside you.  Truly appreciate those around you, and you’ll soon find many others around you.  Truly appreciate life, and you’ll find that you have more of it to live.  

2. Ignore other people’s negativity.

3. Forgive those who have hurt you.

4. Be who you really are. – Being YOU is worth it!

5. Choose to listen to your inner voice. 

6. Embrace change and enjoy your life as it unfolds. – The hardest part about growing is letting go of what you were used to, and moving on with something you’re not. 

7. Choose your relationships wisely. 

8. Recognize those who love you. – The most memorable people in your life will be the ones who loved you when you weren’t very loveable.  Pay attention to who these people are in your life, and love them back, even when they aren’t acting loveable.

9. Love yourself too. 

10. Do things your future self will thank you for. 

11. Be thankful for all the troubles you don’t have.

12. Leave enough time for fun. 

13. Enjoy the little things in life. – The best things in life are free.  There is absolute joy and wonder to be had in the simplest of moments.  

14. Accept the fact that the past in not today. – Don’t let the past steal your present and future from you.  You might not be proud of all the things you’ve done in the past, but that’s okay.  The past is not today.  The past cannot be changed, forgotten, or erased.  It can only be accepted.  We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past.  But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future.

15. Let go when you must. 

[source : http://www.marcandangel.com/2012/03/19/15-ways-to-live-and-not-merely-exist/]

Happy Father's Day

A father is his daughters first love and his sons first hero.
The reason why daughter’s love their Dad the most is… that there is at least one man in the world who will never hurt her……
 
Years may come and go, but your memory will never be erased.
I once knew a man, who gave love at his best,
And no one can ever take your place.
I miss you so much DAD!

Lullaby

16 years have passed and i miss u more that ever...

Lullaby-Arwen
Don't you cry, I'm right here with you
Feel the darkness running away from here
Don't you cry, I will stay with you
Nightmare, demons... all end now

So close your eyes and you will travel
To a magic world
Where peace reigns forever

Today the stars will guide your dreams and
Protect all the things above you
Tonight an angel will come to give you a kiss
Only for you
Sweet dreaming now, my little piece of love

Here we go, don't look at behind
Hold my hand and we will fly away
Here you have a thousand of adventures to live
Just choose one every night

Don't remember (the) darkness and sorrow
Come here now, back to light

Where have you been?

Bohsan...

Aku dah bosan... Bosan dengan kerja...
Adakah ini permanent atau sementara? Aku harap sementara saja lah...
     kalau x camana aku nak makan...
     kalau x camna aku nak bayar kereta....
     kalau x camna aku nak bayar bills dsbgnya...

Tiap hari gi keje ngadap Mac aku ni.. sebarang idea pon dah x kluar...

dah macam2 aku buat kasi idea dtg.... tp sama je...
sudah aku dengar macam2 lagu... tp sama je...
sudah aku berjalan2 mencuci mata.. tp sama je...

     Mungkinkah aku penat...
     Mungkinkah aku tiada kawan di opis baru ni yg sealiran bidang dengan aku....
     Mungkinkah kerana insiden di opis yg membuatkan aku hilang minat...
     Mungkinkah aku tak boleh menjadi designer lagi...
     Mungkinkah aku perlu bercuti...
     Mungkinkah aku perlu bertukar bidang.....

Entahlah...yang pastinya apa aku boleh cakap di sini adalah Aku dah Bohsan...aku menghadapi masalah untuk menghasilkan design... :'(

Love Sucks!!

Love sucks. Love is a deadly weapon used to break down friendships, corrupt lives and even leads to death. It's all in the mind.

Love. It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, some simple a phrase may turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.

It sucks to be alone...

What makes you Happy...

What makes you happy? Hmmmm... aku suka membuatkan org happy... Bagi aku, walaupun sometimes i have to go thru some difficulties..but as long as other people happy, i'm more than happy. Tapi kalau kita dah biasa sangat buat camtu...org akan jadi x appreciate dengan effort kita. Aku happy kalau dpt tengok muka orang lain Happy dengan effort aku untuk membuatkan mereka happy. Aku teringat few kejadian lah... antaranya :

1) Kakak aku kirim beli newspaper..berberapa jenis newspaper la. Especially weekend. Masa tu aku naik motor kapcai je... so kalau satu kedai ni ada 1 paper yg disenaraikan tu x de..aku akan cari sampai ke berberapa kedai lagi sampailah aku dpt semua paper yg dia nak.. Tp kakak aku lagi sorang ni lak..bila diminta beli newspaper..dia akan pegi 1 kedai je...and kalau x de... so fine lah..balik je... Tapi aku x tau la kakak aku appreciate ke tak apa yg aku buat utk dia..i know it's a small things... but..i'd be more than happy if she can just say Thank You to me... or maybe dia x tau how's my effort was just to give her what she wants.



to be continued...

Too Tired to sleep...

Aku terlalu letih sampai susah nak tido...

Say...

Moments..

New Year, New Resolution...

Happy New Year. Semoga Tahun baru membawa seribu satu kebahagiaan dan kesihatan yang berpanjangan kepada semua.

You...

Some people will stay in your heart, but not in your life...
     And
           Some people will stay in your life, but not in your heart..
But
   Why can't I have the One People to stay in my heart and in my life...
        


"Sometime things have to fall apart to make way for better things."- ted mosby -

Normal?

Am I Normal or what?

1) When my friends are crazily talk and plan on buying expensive designers handbags, i'm alone wishing for a tablet, WACOM INTUOS 4 " 6X9" (PTK-640).

Harga handbag (Coach or Marc Jacobs) anggaran RM1k++ meanwhile my Wacom tablet pun RM1k++….hmmmm…. i definitely will choose Wacom, or if i have to choose a bag, i'll go for Crumpler Moderate Embarrassment or Crumpler Arnold Heist.

-Coach-

-Marc Jacobs-

-Wacom  INTUOS graphic tablet-

-Crumpler Arnold Heist-

-Crumpler Moderate Embarrassment-

2) Bila kengkawan aku dengan penuh semangat citer tentang Ombak Rindu… aku, in the other hand sibuk nak tunggu Underworld 4 ngan Ultimate Avengers

3) Bila kengkawan sibuk citer pasal nk gi holiday… my dream kind of holiday adalah masuk utan ngan kengkawan offroads aku to unknown destinations atau my second choice will be cuti di rumah tanpa gangguan, boleh bangun jam brapa aku suka (tp mesti terbangun awal gak..) dan tengok movie marathon sensorang dengan happy nya…

4) Bila kengkawan sibuk citer pasal makan best2 kat tempat mahal2… bagi aku makanan yang best adalah Nasi Ayam Kicap tepi longkang kat tempat keje lama aku dan makan n lepak sesama kengkawan baik aku…

5) Bila kengkawan sibuk citer pasal kasut (again branded shoes…) my dream and most expensive shoe yg aku nak adalah SWAT Air 9" All Leather Tactical SZ Boot

6) Bila kengkawan sibuk citer pasal accessories…accessories yang aku sangat2 nak adalah Gerber Diesel Multi-plier Tools.

7) Bila kengkawan sibuk citer pasal drama tv kul 7…aku masih di opis bekerja… bila diorang bercerita pasal citer2 kat tv…aku lak..TV pun dah lama x tengok..(balik keje kul baper la pulak..slalu balik je mmg tido..)


8) Bila kengkawan sibuk citer pasal kedai mahal2...my kind of shop yg aku suka pegi adalah Hardware shop and kedai2 komputer spt Lowyat ataupun PC Fair...




So, am I normal or what?

Christmas Gifts Exchange...

Merry Christmas.

BZ betul aku sejak masuk company baru ni.. selalu aku mmg gi keje pepagi..balik umah pun dah kul 8 baru kluar dari opis.. Hidup aku utk keje je…tak de masa nak update blog, nak bersosial dan masih belum ada masa nak email gambar2 pada kawan aku Jut..(harap bersabar ye…hihi.. insyaallah aku akan email sebelum tahun depan..hehe..) Weekend so far ada je aktiviti..by the time balik umah..mesti dah letih.. 

kat umah pun x de masa nak berinternet.. balik umah dah malam setakat bukak fb tengok update kengkawan..pastu tido.. keje2 menengok movie sblm tido pon dah x de masa…

Kadang2 bila ingat kengkawan kat company lama, rasa rindu lak kat geng2 aku..(Aye, Antus & Sab..) Selalu dulu ada je aktiviti kami kat opis… kat co baru ni boleh dikatakan aku x de kawan la..basically aku sensorang je..buat keje mengadap monitor sampai nak berair mata aku.. sekali sekala ada la borak2 ngan colleague kat sini..tapi x de la macam kat company lama yg mana aku ada klik aku sendiri..

Aku kat sini selalu lunch pon x kluar..duduk je la kat opis.. sbb sini working culture dia berbeza kalau nak banding ngan company lama..sini mostly semua orang keje je.. x de la nak mengular..walaupun sini x strict..very flexible..tapi x de org yg amek kesempatan.. aku suka macam tu.. sbb they treat us as an adult..bukan macam kat company lama, terasa macam kat sekolah..dtg lewat pun kena.. sini very flexible..takde la sesapa kena panggil kalau datang keje lewat..as long as keje nko siap, no problem.. bagus kan?

Okay, sekarang aku nak citer pasal salah satu culture yang ada kat opis aku ni…disebabkan di sini adalah company 1 Malaysia..semua bangsa ada, maka pihak syarikat menyambut semua perayaan… setiap kali perayaan akan diadakan jamuan mengikut budaya perayaan yang disambut itu.. Bulan Disember ini, Krismas adalah perayaan ketiga bersama company ini.. (sebelum ni Raya Puasa & Deepavali) Waktu Raya aritu..makanan masyarakat Melayu lah bersempena dengan Hari Raya, Masa Deepavali aritu, makanan masyarakat India lah yg dihidangkan.. Jadi, sempena Krismas ini, pihak syarikat meneruskan tradisi 'Exchange Gift' sesama pekerja…hihihihi…excitednye aku… tak sabar rasanya… dah lama rasanya x buat exchange gift ni..kali terakhir aku rasa masa kat STJ..masa party Dorm..hehehe..

Kami diminta membeli hadiah yang nilainya minimum RM15. Hmmm.. aku mula2 pikir nak beli Mug..tp diorang kata sini sangatlah biasanya Mug..hmm…apa lagi..ada staff suggest beli Tupperware… (aku suka tupperware…tp utk aku sendiri..hehe.. tetiba teringat lak kat akak Janet kat company lama, dia kasi aku tupperware masa aku nak chow dulu…lama x makan kueh kak janet jual..) Maka, semalam lepas keje, aku membawa payung utk berjalan kaki ke seksyen 14, Digital Mall, my 1st time gi sana…rambang mata aku…ni macam low yat la…my favourite kind of shop..woot woot.. So, aku jumpa la 1 menda ni yg mmg aku terpikir nak beli sbg hadiah..tp nak cari yg sesuai…so..aku jumpa yg aku rasa sesuai.. harga lebih sikit la dari yg ditetapkan..tp aku harap orang yg terima hadiah aku tu akan happy…(kan best kalau aku yg dapat..hehehe…aku definitely akan happy...hahaha.....sbb kami akan undi nama nnt..hehe..harap2 aku yg dapat..haha)

p/s Kad, envelope & wrapper semua aku buat sendiri..hehe...aku mmg suka buat sendiri menda2 ni.. :)

- b u t t e r c u p -

Stay

- b u t t e r c u p -

A Woman's Worth

You could buy me diamonds
You could buy me pearls
Take me on a cruise around the world
Baby, you know I'm worth it

Dinner lit by candles
Run my bubble bath
Make love tenderly to last and last
Baby, you know I'm worth it

Wanna please, wanna keep
Wanna treat your woman right
Not just dough, better show
That you know she is worth your time

You will lose if you choose
To refuse to put her first
She will and she can
Find a man who knows her worth

'Cuz a real man knows a real woman when he sees her
And a real woman knows a real man ain't afraid to please her
And a real woman knows a real man always come first
And a real man just can't deny a woman's worth

If you treat me fairly
I'll give you all my goods
Treat you like a real woman should
Baby, I know you're worth it

If you never play me
Promise not to bluff
I'll hold it down when shit gets rough
'Cuz baby, I know you're worth it

She walks the mile, makes you smile
All the while being true
Don't take for granted
The passion that she has for you

You will lose if you choose
To refuse to put her first
She will and she can
Find a man who knows her worth, ooh

'Cuz a real man knows a real woman when he sees her
And a real woman knows a real man ain't afraid to please her
And a real woman knows a real man always comes first
And a real man just can't deny a woman's worth

No need to read between the lines spelled out for you
Just hear this song 'cuz you can't go wrong when you value
A womans worth
(Womans, womans, womans)

'Cuz a real man knows a real woman when he sees her
And a real woman knows a real man ain't afraid to please her
And a real woman knows a real man always comes first
And a real man just can't deny a woman's worth

'Cuz a real man knows a real woman when he sees her
And a real woman knows a real man ain't afraid to please her
And a real woman knows a real man always comes first
And a real man just can't deny a woman's worth

-buttercup-